Embracing Healing: Navigating Motherhood as a Survivor

REAL TALK

For many women, becoming a mother awakens emotions, memories, and experiences from their own childhood. And the memories aren’t always pleasant.

Moms who have experienced trauma in their past have a completely “other” motherhood journey. In an episode of Motherhood Unmasked, I spoke from the heart, offering support, understanding, and empowerment.

Because as a survivor, I know what it’s like.

I took off my mask and shared my story to provide insights and inspiration for fellow moms navigating the intersection of trauma and motherhood.

So, if you’re up for it, I’d love to delve into strategies for embracing healing, letting go of shame, and becoming the resilient, loving mother you aspire to be.

I SEE YOU

The mom often overlooked. Women, like you, who carry the weight of childhood trauma while simultaneously facing the demands of motherhood. I recognize the unique challenges you encounter. Your own painful experiences intertwine with your child’s need for nurturing.

But no one talks about it. As a society, we assume every woman comes with a nurturing switch that flips on as soon as she learns she’s pregnant. And it’s just not the case.

That’s why it is essential to acknowledge and validate your experience, since your journey is both complex and deserving of support.

UNMASKING THE SHAME

Shame often lurks beneath the surface for survivors of childhood trauma. It silently undermines your self-perception and mothering abilities.

And like a shape shifter, it appears like anything but what it is. But shame’s sole purpose is to convince you “it’s your fault” and “you’re ruined” because of what happened to you.

May I encourage you to shed the shame that may have accompanied your traumatic experiences? The abuse, neglect, or abandonment you endured during childhood was never your fault. And it is crucial for you to release the false belief that you are ruined or unworthy.

When you challenge shame’s lies and embrace forgiveness, you can break free from the cycle of self-blame. And foster a healthier environment for your children—because you are healed.

THE POWER OF AUTHENTICITY

Motherhood Unmasked emphasizes the power of authenticity in healing and connecting with others. I encourage Mama Bares, like you, to let go of the mask they wear to convince the world, their families, and themselves that everything is fine.

It’s when you’re vulnerable, by sharing your story and struggles, that you create an opportunity for genuine connection and growth. Because the journey towards healing is not a solo one.

So drop the image and seek support from others who have experienced similar traumas. Find encouragement in the shared strength. And discover a sense of belonging in a community that understands your unique challenges.

SHAME OFF YOU!

I see the mask you wear, the façade that convinces the world and even yourself that you’re fine. But childhood trauma keeps tripping you up. In this episode, I give you what you long for, both for yourself and for your children.

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NURTURING SELF AND CHILDREN

To be the best mother you can be, you must prioritize your own healing journey. I’m a big proponent of self-care, self-compassion, and seeking professional help. (Because we all have blind spots and a therapist helps you address them).

And by actively engaging in your healing process, you model resilience, self-love, and healthy coping mechanisms for your children.

As you embrace your intrinsic worth, you create a nurturing environment that fosters your children’s emotional well-being and allows them to thrive.

BETTER IS POSSIBLE

Motherhood is a blessing, but you’re not alone if your journey feels complicated. For moms who have experienced childhood trauma, the challenges may feel overwhelming. I’ve been there. I get it.

That’s why at Motherhood Unmasked, it’s so important to acknowledge the mother battling her own childhood trauma. You deserve to know healing and wholeness are possible and the support to achieve it.

Your past does not define you. You have the power to rewrite your narrative. With support, self-compassion, and the insight from a trusted therapist, you can find healing and forge a brighter path for yourself and your family.

I’m rooting for you…

Master Your Mommy Mindset

On the days motherhood feels like an uphill battle, your self-talk game is a major key to your victory.

Set your mind with these 7 affirmations so you start the day winning. My gift to you!

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